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Things We Don’tTalk AboutWork with us 01 A podcast for the unsaid
Bold, unfiltered conversations about relationships, money, mental health, masculinity and the truths people think—but rarely say out loud.
If it makes you uncomfortable…it probably needs to be said.
Hosted byVutomi Ngwenya
About the show
Things We Don’t Talk About is a bold, unfiltered podcast that dives into the conversations most people avoid. Hosted by Vutomi Ngwenya, this platform brings real voices, real experiences and real honesty to the table.

No rehearsed answers. People speak from lived experience.
Warm conversations with enough courage to go deeper.
Curiosity, empathy and honesty—without the sugar-coating.
From the studio
Real people. Raw topics. Meaningful connection.
Join us every Tuesday at 4PM.

Meet the host
More than an interviewer, Vutomi is a listener, storyteller and facilitator of conversations that matter.
Vutomi is the creator and host of Things We Don’t Talk About, a podcast dedicated to honest, vulnerable and meaningful conversations about the experiences people often carry in silence. His warm, empathetic and curious approach helps guests move beyond rehearsed answers and share their authentic stories.
Outside podcasting, Vutomi is an experienced IT leader, entrepreneur, speaker and Managing Director of VJM Tech. His work spans technology, customer experience, people development, organisational culture, leadership and creating opportunities for others.
“Some of the most powerful moments of healing begin when people are finally given permission to speak.”
Through the podcast, Vutomi hopes to challenge stigma, encourage understanding and remind people that they are not alone in what they are experiencing.
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