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01 A podcast for the unsaid

The thingswe don’ttalk about.

Bold, unfiltered conversations about relationships, money, mental health, masculinity and the truths people think—but rarely say out loud.

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If it makes you uncomfortable…it probably needs to be said.

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Hosted byVutomi Ngwenya

Relationships◆Mental health◆Identity◆Money◆Masculinity◆Healing◆Culture◆Leadership
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About the show

We say the quiet part out loud.

Things We Don’t Talk About is a bold, unfiltered podcast that dives into the conversations most people avoid. Hosted by Vutomi Ngwenya, this platform brings real voices, real experiences and real honesty to the table.

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Real voices

No rehearsed answers. People speak from lived experience.

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Safe, not shallow

Warm conversations with enough courage to go deeper.

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Truth without judgement

Curiosity, empathy and honesty—without the sugar-coating.

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From the studio

Watch. Listen. Lean in.

Real people. Raw topics. Meaningful connection.

From the podcast

The conversations are already happening.

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Vutomi Ngwenya, creator and host of Things We Don’t Talk About
HOST / CREATORListener first.Storyteller always.
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Meet the host

Vutomi Ngwenya

More than an interviewer, Vutomi is a listener, storyteller and facilitator of conversations that matter.

Vutomi is the creator and host of Things We Don’t Talk About, a podcast dedicated to honest, vulnerable and meaningful conversations about the experiences people often carry in silence. His warm, empathetic and curious approach helps guests move beyond rehearsed answers and share their authentic stories.

Outside podcasting, Vutomi is an experienced IT leader, entrepreneur, speaker and Managing Director of VJM Tech. His work spans technology, customer experience, people development, organisational culture, leadership and creating opportunities for others.

“Some of the most powerful moments of healing begin when people are finally given permission to speak.”

Through the podcast, Vutomi hopes to challenge stigma, encourage understanding and remind people that they are not alone in what they are experiencing.

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Official podcast merch

Wear the conversation.

Designed for the people brave enough to say what everyone else is thinking.

Black, cream, dusty rose and illustrated editions available.

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Let’s work together

Your voice. Your brand. A conversation that matters.

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Be a guest

Pitch your story, expertise or lived experience for a thoughtful, honest conversation with Vutomi.

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Build something meaningful

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What are you carrying in silence?

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Say the thing.

Your story is never published without your permission.

NO FILTER. NO SUGAR-COATING.

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